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Welcome, beautiful bold soul.

The approach I work with in sacred sexuality revolves around the principles of Tantra. Through this tantric lens, we explore the profound connection between sexuality, spirituality, and personal growth. By honoring and embracing the sacredness of our sexual energy, we embark on a transformative journey that integrates mind, body, and spirit. This tantric approach fosters a deeper understanding of oneself and a more fulfilling and conscious expression of sexuality in all aspects of life.

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If you're here, do you

  • Find it difficult to experience pleasure?

  • Can't get out of your head while in the midst of intimacy with partner(s)or when self pleasuring ?

  • Experience shame around your sexuality?

  • Not know what turns you on?

  • Struggle getting turned on?

  • Avoid sex or pleasure all together?

  • Now sure how to pleasure yourself?

  • Not connecting to your partner(s) in the way you crave and long for?

  • Feel unsatisfied with your orgasm or not have them at al?

  • Feel depleted of radiance?

  • Have trouble with your sexuality?

  • Feel a bit hopeless?

  • Hide your body?

  • Experience numbness, pain, or nothingness in your breasts, chest, or sexual center?

If this sounds like you, do you desire:

  • A deep love and trust for your body and sexuality

  • To feel confident in your sexual expression

  • To rewire your nervous system for radical self-love

  • To ignite your entire body and pleasure systems

  • Knowing what turns you on in and out of the bedroom

  • To gain knowledge of that instrument of yours (your body & pleasure anatomy)

  • Generate profound sexual experiences with embodied confidence

  • Recognize what your body needs and ask for it at any given moment

        Learning how to utilize your sexual energy for aliveness, joy, healing and         pleasure

  • Awaken the wisdom of your womb, breasts, and chest, even if you don't possess these physical body parts.

  • Integrating your emotions with your body.

  • Awaken the wisdom of your orgasm

  • Learn the potent tool; sex magic to manifest your dream life.

This is where I come in:

  • Learning how to utilize your sexual energy for vitality and radiance

  • Nourishing your body and nervous system from your pleasure and orgasm.

  • Integrating your emotions with your body.

  • Learning about the medicine of your orgasm.

  • To learn tools like sex magic so that you manifest and create a life beyond your wildest dreams

  • Upgrading your entire nervous system with love and sexual empowerment so you can live a fulfilled life with no regrets.

Why should I include working on my sexuality?

Most healing and guidance out there focuses on the mind and forgets that the body must be included for true healing and understanding. You can't feel truly safe if you are disconnected from your body. We are taught that we can think our way to healing. Mindset is important, but it is only one aspect of healing. We must work on the body, mind, and spirit. At the core, we are all erotic beings. It is the most natural and beautiful part of being human, yet it has been squashed and shamed. We all carry messaging and shame around this part of us. If you go on a healing journey without reclaiming this part of yourself, you will always be abandoning a part of yourself. The wholeness that you are at the core is fragmented.  

From my own experience, because we haven't learned to listen to our bodies wisdom, we start getting chronic symptoms such as chronic pain, chronic UTIs, chronic stomach problems, severe migraines, menstrual issues, etc. Our bodies start to scream because they are ignored. It happens because we don't know our needs and boundaries. We go around with unmet needs, which lead to suffering and a lack of fulfillment. My purpose is to guide you back home to yourself. It is about finding out what you crave, need, and desire—not what I think you should want or what society thinks or expects. It's gaining clarity and understanding so that you live the life you deserve. My whole purpose is to help you discover your own power. It is all within you. I am here to assist you in remembering who you are at your core, identifying your values, and aligning them with your highest purpose and good. 

In Western society, we are often exposed to a portrayal of sexuality that focuses on disconnected experiences, driven by visual fantasies and external goals. This emphasis on appearances and desires can lead us to neglect the importance of being fully present in our bodies. This results in a lack of authenticity and disconnection both within ourselves and in our relationships with others. The messages conveyed by advertising regarding pleasure often prioritize external needs and objects, disregarding the profound sensations that can be felt within our own bodies. This perpetuates the illusion that we lack something while disregarding the truth that we already possess everything we need within ourselves.

The VITA Method draws on the ancient teachings and practices of Tao and Tantra and combines these with modern-day neuroscience, inner child work, embodiment and a trauma-informed approach.

Layla Martin, the originator of the VITA method, defines it as follows: VITA sex, love, and relationship coaching is partnering with a client in a loving, compassionate and supportive way to create a conscious container for transformation that results in greater self-love, integration and self-realization while staying focused on the client achieving their goals and desires in alignment with the truth of their original essence.

So, whether you're single or in a relationship, rediscovering your sensuality will liberate you like nothing else.


Please get in touch; I would love to create a safe and nurturing space for you to explore this tender topic.

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(858) 800-8014

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